Having kids is a life-changing experience, both good and bad —though, life-altering may be a better phrase 🤔.
And while I do love being a dad with all my heart there are still days when I look at my childless friends and reminisce of those days — which I think all parents do.
Having kids isn’t for everyone and as you say it would be selfish to have kids then neglect them.
Do what makes you happy and live the life that YOU want to.
Great piece, thanks for sharing 👍